Yesterday you may have gotten a chill through your body that had nothing to do with the weather. Rather, it seemed to come from somewhere deep inside, as if some small part of you was remembering a horrible event that changed your life and the lives of everyone on the planet... no wait, in the entire universe. Yes, Tom Cruise and Nicole Kidman officially divorced four years ago this week. I'm still reeling from it myself, and even God locked himself in his room for several days listening to Nirvana's In Utero and tearfully questioning the futility of it all. Truly, we all lost so much that day.