Barcelona (1994) - Quotes

Love Amidst Cultural Tensions

Tagline: Americans. Anti Americans. In Love.

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Cultural Differences and Personal Reactions

Ted: You see, that's one of the great things about getting involved with someone from another country. You can't take it personally. What's really terrific is that when we act in ways which might objectively be considered asshole-ish or incredibly annoying... they don't get upset at all. They don't take it personally. They just assume it's some national characteristic.

Fred: Cosa de gringos.

Ted: Yeah.

Dickie: Fantastic.

Ted, Fred: [together] Yeah.

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Debating Marriage and Personal Values

Marta: I think there is something fascist about a boy who immediately talks of marrying a woman he likes.

Fred: I don’t think Ted is a fascist of the marrying kind.

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U.S. Policy Compared to Ant Colonies

Ted: Maybe you'd like an analogy. Well, take... take these ants. In the U.S. view, a small group, or cadre, of fierce red ants have taken power and are oppressing the black ant majority. Now the stated U.S. policy is to aid those black ants opposing the red ants in hopes of restoring democracy, and to impede the red ants from assisting their red ant comrades in neighboring ant colonies.

Ramon: That is clearly the most disgusting description of U.S. policy I have ever heard. The Third World is just a lot of ants to you.

Jurgen: Those are people dying, not ants.

Ted: No, I... I don't think you understand. I was reducing everything to ant scale, the... the U.S. included. An ant White House, an ant CIA, an ant Congress, an ant Pentagon...

Ramon: Secret ant landing strips, illegally established on foreign soil.

Fred: Where are the red ants?

Ted: [pointing to an ant hill] There.

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Perceptions of Intelligence Across Cultures

Marta: You seem very intelligent for an American.

Fred: Well, I'm not.

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Reality of Love and Commitment

Fred: [[The Graduate] You think wedding vows are going to change everything? God, your naivete is astounding! Didn't you see ]?

Ted: You can remember The Graduate?

Fred: [[w:Katharine Ross|Katharine Ross; [Dustin Hoffman] Yeah, I can remember a few things. Apparently you don't. The end? ] has just married this really cool guy - tall, blond, incredibly popular, the make-out king of his fraternity in Berkeley - when this obnoxious ] character shows up at the back of the church, acting like a total asshole. "Elaine! Elaine!" Does Katharine Ross tell Dustin Hoffman, "Get lost, creep. I'm a married woman"? No. She runs off with him - on a bus. That is the reality.

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Understanding Text and Subtext in Communication

Fred: Maybe you can clarify something for me. Since I've been, you know, waiting for the fleet to show up, I've read a lot, and...

Ted: Really?

Fred: And one of the things that keeps popping up is about "subtext." Plays, novels, songs - they all have a "subtext", which I take to mean a hidden message or import of some kind. So subtext we know. But what do you call the message or meaning that's right there on the surface, completely open and obvious? They never talk about that. What do you call what's above the subtext?

Ted: The text.

Fred: OK, that's right, but they never talk about that.

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Debate on American Violence and Shooting Skills

Woman: You can't say Americans are not more violent than other people.

Fred: No.

Woman: All those people killed in shootings in America?

Fred: Oh, shootings, yes. But that doesn't mean Americans are more violent than other people. We're just better shots.

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Reflections on Shaving and Life Choices

Fred: Tonight while I was shaving - I always shave against the direction of the beard because I understood you got a closer shave that way - I started thinking about this razor commercial on TV which shows the hair follicles like this, going this way. The first of the twin blades cuts them here, then the hair snaps back, and the second blade catches them down here, giving you a closer, cleaner, possibly smoother shave, that we know. But what struck me was if the hair follicles are going in this direction and the razor is too, then they're shaving in the direction of the beard, not against it, which would mean that I've been shaving the wrong way all my life. I mean, maybe that's not so, maybe I misremembered the ad, but the point is, I could have shaved the wrong way all my life and never have known it. And then I could have taught my son to shave the wrong way without him ever knowing it either.

Marta: You have a son?

Fred: No... But I might someday. And then maybe I'll teach him to shave the wrong way.

Marta: I think maybe my English is not so good.

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Complexities of a Misunderstood Character

Fred: [At a disco, talking to Marta and Aurora about Ted, who's out on the dance floor; [Marquis de Sade] He's not at all the way he seems. He might seem like a typical American, like a big unsophisticated child, but he's far more complex than that. Have you ever heard of the ]? Ted's a great admirer of de Sade. And a follower of Dr. Johnson. He's a complex - and in some ways dangerous - man. He has a serious romantic illusion problem. Women find him fascinating. His nickname is "Punta de Diamante" - point of a diamond. You see that odd expression on his face? Under the apparently very normal clothes he's wearing are these narrow leather straps drawn taut so that when he dances...

Aurora: [looking somewhat shocked] What?

Fred: [as Ted leaves the dance floor and comes back to join them] Please don't mention this. He might feel I violated a confidence.

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Perspective on the World’s Orientation

Ted: Here in Barcelona, everything was swept aside. The world was turned upside down and stayed there.

Fred: Has it ever occurred to you that maybe the world was upside down before, and now it's right side up?

Critique of American Society and Culture

Marta Ferrer: Ramon is very persuasive, and he painted a terrible picture of what it would be like for her to live the rest of her life in America, with all of its crime, consumerism, and vulgarity. All those loud, badly dressed, fat people watching their eighty channels of television and visiting shopping malls. The plastic throw-everything-away society with its notorious violence and racism. And finally, the total lack of culture.

Changing Standards in Romantic Relationships

Marta Ferrer: I don't go to bed with just anyone anymore. I have to be attracted to them sexually.

The Dynamics of Sales and Identity

Ted Boynton: Have you ever heard of Maneuver X? When you get deeply into sales, you realize that every major transaction involves a mini identity crisis for the buyer. You think, "Green carpet. Am I really a green carpet person?" In romance, the same thing applies but on a humongous scale. But what is Maneuver X? It's removing all pressure, creating a space that the customer has to affirmatively cross. Only by disappearing more thoroughly and inexplicably than Montserrat can I change the current dynamic. Will it? I don't know. I think it will. If not, I'm dead.

The Limits of Positive Thinking

Ted Boynton: Positive thinking is fine in theory. But whenever I try it on a systematic basis... I end up really depressed.

The Importance of Danceable Jazz

Fred Boynton: My jazz rule is: If you can't dance to it, you don't want to know about it.

Understanding Unconventional Behavior Beyond S&M

Fred Boynton: You are far weirder than someone merely into S&M. At least they have a tradition. We have some idea what S&M is about. There's movies and books about it. But so far as I know, there is nothing to explain the way you are.