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Life as a Joyful Cycle
Siv
Please! What you just saw is a long, long, long observed custom. Those two who jumped have just reached the end of their Hårga life-cycle, and you need to understand it as a great joy for them. And when it is my turn, it will be a great joy for me. We view life as a circle. A re-cycle. The lady who jumped, her name was Ylva, yes? And that baby over there, who is not yet born, will inherit that name. Instead of getting old and dying in pain and fear and shame, we give our life – as a gesture. Before it can spoil. It does no good dying, lashing back at the inevitable. It corrupts the spirit.
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Navigating Emotional Vulnerability in Relationships
Dani
It's just in his tone – you can hear it. It's like he's trying to work up the nerve to say something and I just keep staving it off.
[on the phone]
Girlfriend
So don't stave him off. Be direct! Confront him!
Dani
Well – what if I scared him? I'm always roping him into my family crap... I'm always leaning on him! I tell him everything! I even called him today in tears because my sister sent me another scary email. What if I'm scaring him off?
Girlfriend
Oh – how do you rope him in?That’s what he's there for! What did your sister write?
Dani
Oh – just some ominous bullshit! She does it all the time! It’s torture, and I've been completely leaning on him for support! What if I overwhelmed him and now he thinks I have too much baggage?
Girlfriend
Well, if that's the case, then good riddance! Right?
Dani
No! Not if I went too far! What if I leaned too heavily?
Girlfriend
You didn't! He should be there when you need him.
Dani
But what if I need him too often? If it becomes a chore?
Girlfriend
Then he's not the right guy. Because it shouldn't ever be a chore. Would it be a chore if he leaned on you?
Dani
But he never asks for anything from me! I've never even seen him cry! So I'm the only one leaning!
Girlfriend
Or the only one opening up! The only one making yourself vulnerable. That's intimacy.
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Deciding Between Choices and Regrets
Mark
Dude: you need to stop sitting on the fence with this.
Christian
But what if I end up regretting it a week later, and then I can't get her back?
Mark
You don't want her back!
Christian
I might!
Mark
So then you can bitch to us for that week about how much you regret it, and we'll be like, "Dude: you've been wanting out of this absurd relationship for the last year," and you'll be like "Oh shit, that's right" and then you can find some new chick who actually likes sex and who doesn’t drag you through a million hoops a day.
Josh
Do you think a masochistic part of you is playing this drama out to distract you from the work you actually need to be doing?
Christian
And what work do I actually need to do, Josh?
Josh
Uhhh – your prospectus maybe? I dunno. Your PhD...?
Waitress
Whenever you guys are ready.
Pelle
Thank you.
Waitress
Thank you.
[She smiles at Christian]
Mark
Dude. You could be getting that girl pregnant right now.
Pelle
And don't forget all the Swedish women you can impregnate in June.
Mark
Yeah, dude – don't forget all the Swedish milkmaids.
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Searching for Meaning in Disconnection
Dani
I got lost.
[having a bad trip]
Christian
Let's go back to the group.
Dani
Christian. Nothing means anything.
Christian
What?
Dani
Nothing means anything! We're just alone. And I felt this presence – like God but not God – and it was telling me this and it was laughing at me.
[tearing up]
Christian
You heard laughing?
Dani
I felt it laughing! I figured it out, that nothing means anything and we're born alone and we die alone, and it was getting pleasure from that.
Christian
Okay: no. We're going back to the friends. You're having a bad trip, and you're thinking you're alone because you went off and you made yourself alone. You just got scared. You have me. Everything’s connected. We're all one. Those are the good things you’re supposed to think about when you trip. We're all unified. Fuck.
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Harmony in Nature's Mechanism
Pelle
Nature just knows instinctually how to stay in harmony! It's mechanical. Everything doing its part.
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Disappearance Raises Suspicion Among Friends
Sven
Where is your friend? Josh?
[after one of the sacred texts goes missing]
Christian
I know, ah... We have no idea.
Sven
He, and your other friend – They both disappear the same day. You see how it looks?
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Understanding the Momentous Occasion
Dani
I'm really sorry, Pelle. Thank you for inviting me, but I really need to go. Can someone maybe drive me?
Pelle
I did warn you this time. I know it looks extreme, but we only do this once every ninety years. It's – what's the word...?
Dani
I understand that it's momentous.
Pelle
Right! Exactly!
Dani
I don't know why we're here, Pelle! I don"t know why you invited us!
Pelle
Okay: Here: Sit down. Please. I invited my friends because this is a once-in-a-lifetime thing and I wanted to share it. Especially with my friends who I knew would appreciate it, because I am proud of this place.
Dani
But I’m not an anthropologist. I don't have the foundation to understand this.
Pelle
And yet I was the most excited for you to come. Here: smell this.
Dani
What is it?
Pelle
It calms you down. Go on. Inhale. I will, too. Isn’t that nice?... I know what you're going through, Dani.
Dani
What am I going through? I'm scared. I can't breathe.
Pelle
You're going through a lot. I know you are, and I'm gonna say something now, because my birth parents are both gone, too--
Dani
What?! That's not what I'm talking about!
[crying]
Pelle
I know, and that's fine, but please... My birth-parents both died when I was a little boy. They burned up in a fire, and I became – technically – an orphan. So believe me when I say I know what that is, because I do. Yet my difference is: I didn't get a chance to feel lost. Because I had a family – here – where everyone embraced me and swept me up and I was raised by a community that doesn’t distinguish between what is theirs and what is not theirs. That's what you were sacrificed to. But I – have always felt... held. By a family. A real family. Which everyone deserves. And you deserve.
Dani
Christian could walk in.
[looks down at Pelle's hands holding hers]
Pelle
He's what I'm talking about. And he's my good friend and I like him... But do you feel held by him, Dani? Does he feel like a home to you? My pilgrimage has been fun. New York is fun... But I also find it terrifying how people live. As if it's necessary and even good to be lost and drifting...and I haven't spent one night over there that I haven't longed to be back here...in the lap of the Hårgas. Stay, Dani. Please. It will be good... And I swear we're all finished sacrificing animals.
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Understanding Emotional Expression in Rituals
Sven
We describe it like "emotional sheet music.
[showing Josh a sacred text]
Josh
What does it say?
Sven
Well, each runic letter represents one of the 16 affects, which are graded from most holy to most unholy. This one here is about grief. You can see at the end, however, we have blank pages. This is because the Rubi Radr is a constant work in progress. Forever evolving. We have many, many hundreds of these.
Josh
And who decides what's added?
Sven
Well, uh, this iteration is being written by Rubin.
Josh
Wait. The... disabled?
Sven
Since birth. He draws, and we, the Elders, interpret. You see Josh, Rubin is unclouded by normal cognition. It makes him open for the source.
Josh
Uh, what happens when Rubin... dies? Do you just wait for a baby that is... "not clouded"?
Sven
No, no, no. Uh, Ruben was a product of inbreeding. All of our Oracles have been deliberate products of inbreeding.
[chuckles]
Josh
Can I take a photograph?
Sven
What?
Josh
Uh, a photograph.
Sven
No! Absolutely not!
[closes book]
Josh
Okay, sorry.
Sven
Absolutely not.
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Acknowledging the Presence of a Bear
Mark
So we just gonna ignore the bear then?
[as they pass a bear in a cage]
Pelle
That's a bear.
[shrugs]
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Waiting for the right moment to sit
Christian
How long do they typically stand?
[in hushed tones]
Pelle
Uh we're gonna stand until it's – right to sit.
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Anticipation for the Upcoming Ceremony
Pelle
All right – beauty rest! Tomorrow's a big day.
Josh
And what's tomorrow?
Pelle
First of the big ceremonies.
Josh
So you're just gonna be weird and cryptic?
Josh
Are you serious?
[eyes widening]
Christian
What's that? What's Ättestupan? Fuck. What’s Ättestupan?
[pulls out his phone and types "Atestupan" into a search engine, but there's no internet connection.]
Dani
Is it scary?
Josh
You'll see.
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Tradition and Omen in Midsommar Ceremony
Siv
And now, in keeping with tradition: Hjalmar and Josef will make three trips. If they make it back with the flame intact, our vintage will be abundant this year! On the other hand, if it burns out – that will be an omen of bad luck and we will know to prepare.
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Warning About Cultural Practices in Midsommar
Pelle
I need to warn you before we go down...because you might not want to.
Dani
Is this gonna be something weird?
Pelle
Uhhh – it might seem very weird, but it's a great honor for them.
Dani
Is this the thing you mentioned last night?
Josh
Ättestupan.
Pelle
We're about to perform a centuries-old rite that is very important to us and very beautiful, but also – very far from anything you have in America.
Dani
Do I not want to do this?
[suddenly nervous]
Pelle
Well – that's what I'm saying. You're invited to. I just... You remember I explained the winter stage of a man’s life goes from 53 to 72? Well, this is what happens when 72 is reached.
[pauses]
Dani
Okay. And what is "this"? What is Ättestupan?
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Tensions Rise Among Characters in Midsommar Scene
Ulf
You're pissing on my people! Your little fucking American friend! He's pissed on the Rotvälta!
[shouting in Swedish to Mark; to Pelle]
Ulla
Christian? Christian... Hi. Hello! There you are! Listen: You can't speak. You can't move. All right? Good.
[snaps fingers twice; smiles; smiles]
Maja
I feel it! I can feel the baby!
[in Swedish after being impregnated by Christian during the mating ritual]
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Announcement of a Missing Sacred Book
Sven
Well. We, um - have something regretful to announce. This morning, the nineteenth book of Rubi Radr was found missing, from the temple. We don't want to - point fingers, and yet we kindly ask that whoever took it return it, to its original place. You can leave it in the temple, which will be left unguarded, unwatched. Nobody need to know, it was you.
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Search for Connie in the unknown.
Dani
Has anyone seen Connie?
Christian
I think Mark saw her earlier.
Mark
I'm sure I saw her trying out for the sprinting Olympics earlier.
Dani
What, where?
Jarl
Sorry, but I can say what happened. Her boyfriend called our landline from the train station and calmed Connie down. She begged our pardon and I drove her to meet him.
Christian
OK. That's really...
Dani
Why would Simon leave without her?
Christian
I'm sure it was just a miscommunication.
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Ceremony of Sacrifice and Renewal in Hårga
Siv
On this, the day of our deity of reciprocity, we gather to give special thanks for the precious Sun. As an offering for our Father, we will today surrender nine human lives. As Hårga takes, so Hårga also gives. Thus, for every newblood sacrificed, we will dedicate one of our own. That is: four newbloods, four from Hårga, and one to be chosen by the Queen. Nine in all, to die, and be reborn, in the great Cycle.
Sten
The four newbloods, have already been supplied. As for our end, we have two already dedicated... And two who have volunteered. Ingemar and Ulf. You have brought outside offerings, thus volunteering your own bodies. You will today be joined in harmony with everything. And to Pelle, who has brought new blood, and our new May Queen, you will today be honored for your unclouded intuition. And so, for our ninth offering. It is traditional that our fair Queen shall choose, between a preselected newblood, and a specially ordained Hårgan.
[they step forward]
Sven
Turbeyon.
Sten
Honorable Turbeyon! Please step forward. And... These are your candidates for the ninth and final offering. We patiently await your verdict. The honor has been bestowed on Christian Hughes, our ninth and most sacred offering!
[Turbeyon steps forward from the crowd; A Hårgan woman wheels Christian, whose eyes are locked wide, away from the base of the stage. She positions Christian beside Dag to also be facing the stage; Dani's eyes go back and forth before settling on Christian]
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Pelle's Reflection on Parental Loss
Pelle
My parents died in a fire.
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Life Stages Compared to Seasons
Christian
Who all sleeps in here?
Pelle
All the younger ones. Until we turn 32. Then we move to the houses.
Josh
Why 32?
Pelle
We think of life like the seasons. You are a child until you're 16, and that is the Spring. At some point we all do our Pilgrimage, and that's between 17 and 32. That's Summer. Then, from 33 to 52, you're of working age: Fall. And finally from 53 to 72, you become a mentor.
Josh
Winter.
Dani
What happens when you turn 72, then?
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Limitations of Fire and Ambition
Siv
This high my fire. No higher. No hotter!
[in Swedish]
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May Queen's Tradition and Solo Journey
Siv
Now it's traditional for the May Queen to bless our crops and livestock. And after the luck - you just inherited from that salt herring, we should all be doubly encouraged!
[laughter; pause]
Dani
Can Christian come with me?
Siv
Nej. The Queen must ride alone.
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