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The Impact of Love and Friendship
Charlotte
I knew you were married and I walked right in with my eyes wide open. But you said it would make you happier.
Jerry
And it has. I've got back my work, and that's due to you.
Charlotte
I've been hoping you'd say that.
Charlotte
Shall I tell you what you've given me? On that very first day, a little bottle of perfume made me feel important. You were my first friend. And then when you fell in love with me, I was so proud. And when I came home, I needed something to make me feel proud. And your camellias arrived, and I knew you were thinking about me. Oh, I could have walked into a den of lions. As a matter of fact, I did, and the lions didn't hurt me.
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Inner Beauty Beyond Physical Appearance
Tina
I'm ugly and nobody likes me...I'm not pretty in the least. You know I'm not.
Charlotte
Well, whoever wants that kind of prettiness, Tina? There's something else you can have if you earn it. A kind of beauty.
Tina
What kind?
Charlotte
Something that has nothing to do with your face. A light shines from inside you because you're a nice person. You think about it. Someday, you'll know I'm right.
Tina
Will they like me then?
Charlotte
Who are they?
Tina
Everybody. All the kids at school, Miss Trask, and the nurses and the doctors. Oh, there must be something awfully wrong with me.
Charlotte
Do you like them, Tina? The kids at school, and Miss Trask and the nurses and the doctors?
Tina
No. I hate them.
Charlotte
Shhh. That's something else you've got to grow up with. If you want people to like you, you've got to like people.
Charlotte
Because somebody was good to me once when I needed somebody.
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Exploring Beliefs on Immortality and Connection
Jerry
Please, don't yet.
[as Charlotte tries to leave]
Charlotte
Well, I'm not going to struggle with you.
Jerry
That's right. No telling what sort of primitive instincts you might arouse. Isn't it beautiful? Do you believe in immortality?
[He puts two cigarettes in his mouth, lights them both and then hands one to Charlotte.]
Charlotte
I don't know. Do you?
Jerry
I want to believe that there's a chance for such happiness to be carried on somehow somewhere.
Charlotte
Are you so happy then?
Jerry
Close to it. Getting warmer and warmer as we used to say as kids. Remember?
Charlotte
Look out or you'll get burned we used to say.
Jerry
Are you afraid of getting burnt if you get too close to happiness?
Charlotte
Mercy, no. I'm immune to happiness and therefore to burns.
Jerry
You weren't immune that night on the mountain.
Charlotte
Do you call that happiness?
Jerry
Only a small part. There are other kinds.
Charlotte
Such as?
Jerry
Having fun together, getting a kick out of simple little things, out of beauty like this. Sharing confidences we wouldn't share with anybody else in all the world. Charlotte, won't you be honest and tell me if you are happy too? Since the night on the boat when you told me about your illness, I-I can't get you out of my mind - or out of my heart either. If I were free, there would be only one thing I want to do - prove you're not immune to happiness. Would you want me to prove it Charlotte? Tell me you would. Then I'll go. Why darling, you are crying.
[She turns toward him and buries her head in his chest.]
Charlotte
I'm such a fool, such an old fool. These are only tears of gratitude - an old maid's gratitude for the crumbs offered.
Jerry
Don't talk like that.
Charlotte
You see, no one ever called me darling before.
[they kiss]
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Motherhood and Personal Growth Debate
Dr. Jaquith
My dear Mrs. Vale, if you had deliberately and maliciously planned to destroy your daughter's life, you couldn't have done it more completely.
Mrs. Vale
How? By having exercised a mother's rights?
Dr. Jaquith
A mother's rights? Twaddle. A child has rights. A person has rights to discover her own mistakes, to make her own way, to grow and blossom in her own particular soil.
Mrs. Vale
Are we getting into botany, Doctor? Are we flowers?
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Finding Love in Unexpected Places
Taglines
IN THE Arms OF ANOTHER WOMAN'S MAN...SHE FINDS Her MAN!
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The Role of the Maiden Aunt
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I'm the maiden aunt. Every family has one you know.
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The Quest for Independence
Charlotte
Oh. Mother, I want to ask you something. When Father set up the trust for the two boys, why didn't he make one for me too?
Mrs. Vale
Because you were a mere child and he wisely left your affairs to my own better judgment. I'm sure you've always had everything in the world you want.
Charlotte
I haven't had independence.
Mrs. Vale
That's it. That's what I want to talk about. Independence. To buy what you choose, to wear what you choose, sleep where you choose, independence. That's what you mean by it, isn't it?
Charlotte
Dr. Jaquith says that independence is reliance upon one's own will and judgment.
Mrs. Vale
I make the decisions here, Charlotte. I'm willing you should occupy your own room until I dismiss the nurse. She will occupy your father's room for the time being, and will perform a daughter's duties as well as a nurse's. That will give you a good chance to think over what I've said. I'm very glad to give a devoted daughter a home under my roof, and pay all her expenses, but not if she scorns my authority.
Charlotte
Well, I could earn my own living, Mother. As a matter of fact, I've often thought about it. I'd make a very good head waitress in a restaurant or...
Mrs. Vale
You may think that very funny. But I guess you'll be laughing out of the other side of your face if I did carry out my suggestion.
Charlotte
I don't think I would. I'm not afraid, Mother. I'm not afraid. I'm not afraid, Mother.
Mrs. Vale
Charlotte, sit down. I want you to know something I've never told you before. It's about my will. You'll be the most powerful and wealthy member of the Vale family if I don't change my mind.
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Understanding Psychiatry and Its Misconceptions
Mrs. Vale
Dr. Jaquith has a sanitarium in Vermont, I believe. Probably one of those places with a high wire fence and yowling inmates.
Dr. Jaquith
Well, now, I wouldn't want anyone to have that mistaken notion. Cascade is just a place in the country. People come to it when they're tired. You go to the seashore. They come there.
Mrs. Vale
The very word "psychiatry," Dr. Jaquith. Doesn't it fill you with shame, my daughter, a member of our family?
Dr. Jaquith
There's nothing shameful about my work or frightening or anything else. It's very simple, really, what I try to do. People come to a fork in the road. They're confused. They don't know which way to take. I just put up a signpost: "Not that way. This way.
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Breaking an Engagement Announcement
Charlotte
Mother, Elliott and I have broken our engagement.
Mrs. Vale
What did you say?
Charlotte
I said, Elliott and I have broken our engagement.
Mrs. Vale
Why have you done that?
Charlotte
Because I don't love him.
Mrs. Vale
Have you no sense of obligation to your family or to me? Here you have the chance to join our name Vale with one of the finest families in the city, Livingston, and you come in here and tell me that you're not in love? You're behaving like a romantic girl of eighteen.
Charlotte
I don't doubt it.
Mrs. Vale
And what do you intend to do with your life?
Charlotte
Get a cat and a parrot and live alone in single blessedness.
Mrs. Vale
Stop rocking! You've never done anything to make your mother proud or to make yourself proud either. Why, I should think you'd be ashamed to be born and live all your life as Charlotte Vale. Miss Charlotte Vale.
Charlotte
Dr. Jaquith says that tyranny is sometimes an expression of the maternal instinct. If that's a mother's love, I want no part of it. I didn't want to be born. You didn't want me to be born either. It's been a calamity on both sides.
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Unspoken Affections and Emotional Turmoil
Charlotte
Some man who'll make me happy? Oh, so that's it. So that's it. Well, I've certainly made a great mistake. Here I have been laboring under the delusion that you and I were so in sympathy, so one, that you'd know without being asked what would make me happy. And you come up here to talk about some man. Apparently, you haven't the slightest conception of what torture it is to love a man and to be shut out, barred out, to be always an outsider, an extra.
Jerry
Charlotte, let me...
Charlotte
Why, when Tina said she wanted to come home and stay with me, well, it was like a miracle happening. Like having your child, a part of you. And I even allowed myself to indulge in the fantasy that both of us loving her and doing what was best for her together would make her seem actually like our child after a while. But I see no such fantasy has occurred to you. Again, I've been just a big sentimental fool. It's a tendency I have.
Jerry
Wait a minute. I was afraid you were keeping Tina out of pity. But there was no note of pity in your ridicule of me just now. Now I know you still love me, and it won't die, what's between us. Do what we will - ignore it, neglect it, starve it, it's stronger than both of us together.
Charlotte
Please, let me go.
Jerry
Charlotte...
Charlotte
Please, let me go. Jerry, Dr. Jaquith knows about us. When he said I could take Tina, he said, "You're on probation." Do you know what that means? It means that I'm on probation because of you and me. He allowed this visit as a test, and if I can't stand such tests, I'll lose Tina, and we'll lose each other. Jerry, please help me.
Jerry
Shall we just have a cigarette on it?
Charlotte
Yes.
Jerry
May I sometimes come here?...
Charlotte
Whenever you like; it's your home too. There are people here who love you.
Jerry
...and look at you and Tina? Share with you peace and contentment?
Charlotte
Of course, and just think, it won't be for this time only. That is, if you will help me keep what we have, if we both try hard to protect that little strip of territory that's ours. We can talk about your child...
Jerry
Our child.
Charlotte
Thank you.
Jerry
And will you be happy, Charlotte?
Charlotte
Oh, Jerry, don't let's ask for the moon. We have the stars.
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The Weight of Goodbyes and Futures
Charlotte
I hate goodbyes.
Jerry
They don't matter. It's what's gone before.
Charlotte
No, it's what can't go after.
Jerry
We may see each other - sometime.
Charlotte
No, we promised. We are both to go home.
Jerry
Will it help you to know I'll miss you every moment?
Charlotte
So will I, Jerry, so will I. Goodbye.
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Self-Identification and Acceptance in Adversity
Jerry
Who's the fat lady with the heavy brows and all the hair?
[pointing at Charlotte in the picture]
Charlotte
A spinster Aunt.
Jerry
Where are you? Taking the picture?
Charlotte
I'm the fat lady with the heavy brows and all the hair. I'm poor Aunt Charlotte, and I've been ill. I've been in a sanitarium for three months, and I'm not well yet. Forgive me.
[She breaks down in tears]
Jerry
Feeling better?
Charlotte
Much. Thanks to you. Oh, many, many thanks to you.
Jerry
Thanks for what?
Charlotte
Oh, for sharing my carriage today and for walking my legs off sight-seeing. And for lunch and for shopping, and for helping me feel that there were a few moments when I - when I almost felt alive. Thank you.
Jerry
Thank you who?
Charlotte
Thank you, Jerry.
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Excuses for Women in Life's Challenges
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Today Her Greatest! For a woman there's always an excuse . . .
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The Burden of Late Parenthood
Mrs. Henry Windle Vale
Charlotte was a late child. There were three boys, then after a long time, this girl. "A child of my old age," I've always called her. I was well into my forties, and her father passed on soon after she was born. My ugly duckling. Of course it's true that all late children are marked. Often such children aren't wanted. That can mark them. I've kept her close by me always. When she was young, foolish, I made decisions for her. Always the right decisions.
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The Resilience of Old Boston Homes
Dr. Jaquith
There's nothing like these old Boston homes anywhere. Here on Marlborough Street or Beacon Hill, you see them standing in a row like bastions. Firm, proud, resisting the new. Houses turned in upon themselves, hugging their pride.
Charlotte
Introverted, doctor.
Dr. Jaquith
Well, I wouldn't know about that. I don't put much faith in scientific terms. I leave that to the fakirs and writers of books.
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Discontent with Tourists While Traveling
Mrs. Henry Windle Vale
Could we try to remember that we're hardly commercial travelers? It's bad enough to have to associate with these tourists on board without having to go ashore with them.
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Struggling with Maternal Expectations and Self-Identity
Charlotte Vale
My mother didn't think that Leslie was suitable for a Vale of Boston. What man is suitable, Doctor? She's never found one. What man would ever look at me and say, "I want you"? I'm fat. My mother doesn't approve of dieting. Look at my shoes. My mother approves of sensible shoes. Look at the books on my shelves. My mother approves of good, solid books. I'm my mother's well-loved daughter. I'm her companion. I'm my mother's servant. My mother says. My mother! My mother! My mother!
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The Balance of Giving and Taking
Jerry
I can't go on forever taking, taking, taking from you and, and giving nothing, darling.
Charlotte
Oh, I see. Forgive me, Jerry, it's your pride, isn't it? Let me explain. You will be giving. Don't you know that to take is sometimes a way to give - the most beautiful way in the world if two people love each other. You'll be giving me Tina, every single day I'll be taking and you'll be giving.
Jerry
It's very kind of you to put it that way.
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Striving for Independence and Understanding
Charlotte
Mother, I don't want to be disagreeable or unkind. I've come home to live with you again here in the same house. But it can't be in the same way. I've been living my own life, making my own decisions for a long while now. It's impossible to go back to being treated like a child again. I don't think I'll do anything of importance that will displease you. But Mother, from now on, you must give me complete freedom, including deciding what I wear, where I sleep, what I read...
Mrs. Vale
Where did you get that dress?
Charlotte
Lisa and I bought it in New York today.
Mrs. Vale
It's outrageous. Where's the black-and-white foulard?
Charlotte
I gave it to Miss Till. She was so grateful. Mother, please be fair and meet me halfway.
Mrs. Vale
They told me before you were born that my recompense to having a late child was the comfort the child would be to me in my old age, especially if she was a girl. And on your first day home after six months absence, you behave like this.
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